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What is Defend Yourself?
Defend Yourself works to empower people - especially women and others targeted for abuse and assault – to end violence and create a world where they can be fully themselves. Participants learn skills to help them prevent, heal from, and end violence and abuse.
All Defend Yourself instructors have training in self-defense theory and techniques, in research on violence, and in teaching skills. Read what people say about our teachers.
| Lauren Taylor, lead instructor of Defend Yourself: |
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Has more than 20 years’ teaching experience. |
| Is certified as a self-defense instructor by the National Women’s Martial Arts Federation. |
| Writes extensively on interpersonal violence. |
| Was a founder of My Sister’s Place, DC’s shelter for battered women and their children. |
Was an organizer of the 1978 March to Stop Violence Against Women (DC’s first Take Back the Night March).
Click here to read more about Lauren |
| Vibha Bhatia |

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I’ve been teaching self defense and karate for four years. My specialty is self-defense from the ground. Helping people to feel stronger is such a reward. I feel empowered by teaching adults to protect themselves. I’ve also taken many self-defense classes such as street harassment, gun and knife self-defense, and IMPACT. Learning self-defense has taught me to be more confident and not see myself as a victim anymore from previous assaults. I want to teach people to feel the same way. (Teaches through a partnership with DC Self Defense Karate Association.) |
| Angie Head |
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I began studying martial arts informally with my father at a young age. I began formally in 1996 with tae kwon do. Initially the traditions and the philosophies of the martial arts are what attracted me, but as I began studying in a school that stressed self-defense, that aspect of tae kwon do became very important to me as well. I have been teaching self-defense in the Washington surrounding area for about 10 years, mostly to women, young people and the LGBTQ community. I have gained a lot by sharing what I have learned over the years with these communities. I look forward to many more years of teaching and empowering people by showing them their inherent power. (Teaches through a partnership with DC Self Defense Karate Association.) |
| Cathie Reid |
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I began training in tae kwon do in 1995 in a school that also taught self-defense. I fell in love with the art but more importantly I loved the self-defense. I began assisting, then teaching, self defense in 1996, and the feeling I get by empowering others cannot be explained with mere words. I specialize in teaching children (especially boys) ages 3 to16 and women. As a survivor of spousal abuse (there was an attempt on my life), I am both honored and humbled to reach out to other women who have also endured this abuse and survived. To share my testimony and then show them how to defend themselves confirms to me my purpose in life. |
| Mary Duke Smith |
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I came to self-defense as a student after having used verbal and physical boundary setting skills to deal with situations in my life. I wanted to continue to grow, expand my repertoire and become stronger in every way. As a teacher now, I continue to learn and grow through every interaction with my students. We are all so strong and creative just as we are! Self-defense helps us hone and develop our skills to an even higher level. When I’m not teaching with Defend Yourself, I am a personal trainer and experiential educator specializing in team-building and outdoor adventure. |
| Sarah Trembath |
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I’ve been teaching self-defense since 1995. My own training, which began in 1993, includes tae kwon do, full-contact self-defense, conflict-resolution, and tai chi. Thus my teaching is a blend of hard-style, soft-style, and emotion regulation techniques. I especially enjoy working with young people in urban environments. I believe that personal safety and nonviolent living are basic human rights that, once attained, free us to reach our true God-given potential. |
| Crissy Dyer |
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Crissy teaches through a partnership with DC Self Defense Karate Association. |
| Farah Fosse |
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I studied self-defense with Wendo in Argentina and then with Defend Yourself starting in 2005. I’ve also studied martial arts and received self-defense instructor training with the National Women’s Martial Arts Federation. I especially enjoy supporting women and girls in finding their voices and becoming more assertive. At my day job I organize tenants and work to preserve affordable housing with a Latino non-profit organization. I also do activist work with the Down There Health Collective, facilitating workshops on reclaiming health and creating healthy communication around consent and sex. A common thread in these activities is a desire to support people in developing tools to take control of their lives, fight back against oppression and create spaces based on consent and cooperation. |
| Ashley Cruz |
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Ivonne Martinez |
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Ashley teaches through a partnership with DC Self Defense Karate Association. |
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What people say about our instructors:
| A good listener |
Funny, informative, confident, and smart |
| A good role model |
Has a positive attitude |
| A reassuring presence |
Her calm, steady energy felt reassuring. |
| Approachable, kind and supportive |
Knows her stuff |
| Awesome! |
LOVE YOU GUYS! YOU HAVE CHANGED MY LIFE! |
| Compassionate |
Meets each person where she is |
| Competent, and above all CARING |
Passionate |
| Considerate |
Professional and kind |
| Consistent and warm |
Quick wit, big heart |
| Created a comfortable, supportive environment |
Really well-organized |
| Dedicated |
Thoughtful |
| Encouraging |
Understanding and flexible |
| Experienced |
Very knowledgeable |
| Fantastic facilitator |
Very positive |
| Flexible and receptive |
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| Inspiring, caring, understanding, strong, and self-assured |
The teachers role-modeled being strong women |
She showed that being small doesn’t mean you can’t defend yourself |
| Was a role model for me. She walks with the confidence I want. |
Always made me feel positively, personally recognized. One of the most competent, dynamic instructors I’ve ever had. |
The teachers’ comfort with their bodies had a strong, positive impact on everyone. |
Helped us focus on our strengths, not our weaknesses |
Extremely sensitive…always made me feel safe |
I admire her and feel inspired by her example |
More About Lauren Taylor
Lauren has been studying and teaching self-defense since 1985. She has taught classes to thousands of women, teens, children, and men from all walks of life. She specializes in classes for women, for people with disabilities, for lesbians/gay men/bisexuals, and for survivors of abuse and assault.
Lauren earned a black belt in tae kwon do in 1995 and was certified as a self-defense instructor by the National Women’s Martial Arts Federation in 2000. She also leads a program for 11- to 13-year-old girls, GIRLSPEAK, that focuses on building assertiveness, personal power, confidence, and self-defense skills.
Lauren also writes extensively on interpersonal violence.
Selected publications include:
- “The Assertive Response to ‘Hey, Baby’,” The Washington Post, Oct. 27, 2003.
- “The War At Home: The Defense Department Takes Aim at Domestic Violence,” Government Executive magazine, March 2002.
- “Walking Out on Spouse Abuse,” The Washington Post, July 24, 2000.
- “Study Has Clues for Spouses Facing Mortal Danger,” WomensEnews, Oct. 19, 2001.
- “How to Help a Woman Who is Being Abused,” “How to Strengthen Your Community Against Domestic Violence,” and “State of Mine” (commentary on Violence Against Women Act reauthorization), Oxygen Media, Dec. 2000.
- “Prisons Ignore Risk of Assault for Women,” Violence Prevention & Personal Safety News, Fall 1999. “Teens Show Troubling Beliefs About Rape,” VPPS, Winter 1999.
- "Sexual Assault in Abusive Relationships," National Institutes of Justice Journal, Jan. 2007, and "Has Rape Reporting Increased Over Time?" NIJ Journal, July 2006.
Lauren’s self-defense expertise is bolstered by her experience in related fields: as a counselor at a women’s clinic; a founder of My Sister’s Place (DC’s shelter for battered women and their children); the education coordinator of the Women’s Legal Defense Fund; and as one of the organizers of the 1978 March to Stop Violence Against Women (DC’s first Take Back the Night March).
Find out what our students and what the news media say about Defend Yourself.
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